The last time this happened he rejected the offer and didn't tell me until months after the fact. For a 50k/year job.
This led to all sorts of fighting about us not actually being together, him being scared, him telling me that he's not sure he can do this (even though HE had to convince ME to before the relationship even started--I was INCREDIBLY cold-footed about the entire thing as I do not usually and had never even considered distance).
Basically I got all mad because he dragged me kicking and screaming into loving him and is now bitching and moaning about us being apart.
There is a very real chance of him getting a job here still, but he has to apply to some places first. We were both devastated by the rejection, we've spent a ton of money flying back and forth, etc.
Does anyone have any advice?