Last year I dated a guy who was married. It wasn’t an affair, he was separated from her and had moved out and I was under the impression that they were getting a divorce. According to her they were never actually broken up, he moved out but they were still together. It makes sense because the whole time we were seeing each other she was buggin. She hacked his Snapchat, his Instagram and his Twitter. She stole topless photos of me and posted them on his social media. I like my titties and my face weren’t in them so it didn’t affect me. Then she got mad because I wasn’t mad. She would make fake accounts on Instagram and DM me telling me he’s violent and he beats women and that he was going to beat me. And she looked me up on LinkedIn and said she was going to fight me even tho I haven’t updated my LinkedIn since I had my first job. She apologized later and I forgave her because she clearly wanted him more than I did.
Eventually he couldn’t afford the place he was staying in so he moved back in with her and they got back together. I was like ok and I thought everything was done. I started dating Nick a couple weeks later and I moved on.
But this guy kept randomly reaching out to me, calling me, trying to check up on me and make sure I was ok. I told him to stop. I moved on and I was happy. Then a couple weeks ago he randomly called me and told me that he was in love with me. He can’t live his life without me in it, he thinks about me all the time. He isn’t in love with her and wants to leave her, move out and be with me. I told him I’m not really thinking about that kinda thing now, and he should focus on getting away from her not for me but for himself since he’s clearly unhappy. Plus I’m dating Nick with the big dick, I’m good.
He wouldn’t listen he was convinced that he’s in love with me, I’m his soul mate, and he wants to be with me. Okay whatever.
So I stalk his Facebook to see wtf lead him to declare love for me after 4 months of not speaking and it turns out he has another baby on the way with his wife and they just did the sex reveal. I cussed him out and blocked him. I contemplated telling his wife but she’s pregnant and I don’t want to stress her out. Plus she knows he’s in love with me, she said it herself and I thought she was tripping because she’s crazy.
