I hate to disagree with you ladies, but some cocks are damn good looking. lol
You're right! I've totally asked other guys if they ever had like "gay thoughts" about other dudes and 99% of them are like ew no dude gross lol but I'm sure they ALL have had atleast ONE thought about another dude. Same with girls. Except it happens way more often I think. All my girl friends have told me they have at least once either thought sexually about another women or want to have sex with another women to once to see what its like.
Maybe it's because males were always more victimized about homosexuality than women, even today. We, women can talk to each other about our desires or fantasies without being judged, with men that doesn't happen, not even in their jerk-male-circle-of friends. It's understandable that they want to keep those thoughts to them, but I honestly don't see anything wrong thinking about it. Bloody hell it's sex! It's supposed to make us feel good and not the opposite.