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[sonic]

Well.
What a better place to whine....

Atleast I know you guys will be honest...

I'm not usually the type to date.... and if I do, it's like 3 weeks max. I have been dating Katie for a month now. I have known her for awhile, and well she ummm changed me. I am a different person because of her. I think I love her. She tells me she loves me, and all this stuff. It's really awsome what we have.
BUT
She went to lake powell, about 120 miles from were we live. Her cell only works 2% of the time, and she calls me whenever she can. She has been there for a week, and comes back tonight. But, when I talked to her today, she seemed different. Like, less "in-love". I know I am probly just imagining it, she really is into me alot, and not really the type to act like that. But still. I have the damn bad feeling in my gut, that I cant get to go away.

What the fuck should I do lol. I feel like an Idiot asking for chick help, especially on the Net. I'm usually the one giving advice. But I guess when It comes to "love" I'm a damn noob

Edited by Sonic, 14 July 2006 - 10:18 AM.

[Darkness]

Best bet is to just wait for her to come back, wait a bit, and mybe things will get better? I don't know, I'm not good with "love" anyways.

[dolphinbomb]

Dude, it's been 3 weeks..

Give it some time. Right now, I seriously doubt it's "love." Just the infatuation stage. Give it a few months, then see where things go.

[redlion]

She's been away from you for a week man. You can't expect her to act the same with that amount of separation. Especially at this stage of the game.

[Hawk]

Is she hot? Have you tapped it yet? o.o
Im kidding.

Good luck with your relationship, three weeks seems too short to say you love eachother but whatever. And how can you tell over the phone???

[Lawivido]

Is she hot? Have you tapped it yet? o.o
Im kidding.

Good luck with your relationship, three weeks seems too short to say you love eachother but whatever. And how can you tell over the phone???

He said she came back. But anyways, I'm more of a date and not love person too. I wouldn't know what to do >< Sorry.

[Amagius]

Don't get wussy on me, boy. You can't judge someone over the phone, but just be the same as you were before. Don't slip into a wussiness, and it should be the same.

[Cataliste]

Sorry Sonic. She probably banged a life guard.

Best bet is to shoot the bitch and move on. Oh kill the guy if you find him. He probably did not know aobut you, but still. Kill him on general principle.

[Amagius]

Uh, ignore Cata. He's from the ghetto, homey. He doesn't play the game like we play it. FOR CHRIST SAKES, HE WAS RAISED ON BREAD AND BALONEY.

Edited by Amagius, 14 July 2006 - 11:35 AM.

[redlion]

Uh, ignore Cata. He's from the ghetto, homey. We doesn't play the game like we play it. FOR CHRIST SAKES, HE WAS RAISED ON BREAD AND BALONEY.

Don't come around here cause you're phony.

[Warlord]

Sorry Sonic. She probably banged a life guard.

Best bet is to shoot the bitch and move on. Oh kill the guy if you find him. He probably did not know aobut you, but still. Kill him on general principle.

is that that southern justice stuff?

[SupermanFTM]

You are evil Cata. Oh well

Take Cody's advice, he's good with this sort of stuff. Show her you still think about her all the time(love her even) and do something nice for when she gets back. Buy her roses or something, and be yourself If there was something that changed, it should go back to normal with time.

[sonic]

Sorry Sonic. She probably banged a life guard.

Best bet is to shoot the bitch and move on. Oh kill the guy if you find him. He probably did not know aobut you, but still. Kill him on general principle.

LOL I asked for the truth..... I guess I got it in the world of Cata.

Anyway.
I know it's stupid. I shouldnt love this girl. It makes no sense. She is all nice, and proper. I'm used to hood rats I guess. But, for some reason I like her in a way I can't even explain, so I call it love.

But. I don't know. You guys are all awsome, thanks for the support.

[Dancryc]

Hmmmm first off, see how she acts after a couple days an if you still have the bad feeling in your gut then you need to tell her you feel something is wrong and since she's been gone she's changed. Tell her you want to know what's going on. Honestly its not good to just imagine your other is cheating. I nearly ruined a relationship over my accusations and the other person really hadn't done anything wrong. People change, that's just life. Go with your gut but sometimes its just our insecurities peeking out, not what we feel is REALLY going on. Communication is best if you still feel that way after she has come back. Let us know how things go! Hope everything turns out well.

[Tetiel]

Look, hardly anyone's in love after a month. It just doesn't happen that way. You barely have enough time to get to know each other at all. You don't get to poke and prod under the insides... all you see is the surfice. Maybe you should wait before even 6 months before you begin to call something love, no? And don't worry so much. Did you ever think that she's just tired? You're overreacting

[TScully89]

Wait for her to come back, and take things from there. Let destiny take its course, because obviously it wasn't you doing anything to make her "less-in-love." And relax

[philywilly]

Happened to me.. didn't see my gf for a week or two and she was acting all weird.. next thing I learn, she cheated on me.. dumped the bitch and moved on. but I'm not saying it's always like that. Just wait a little to see if it's still akward, if it is, then there's probably something wrong going on.

[Amagius]

I understand, and I do believe that love can happen this quickly, though I'm sure if anyone other than you can be sure of it. Also, avoid the roses thing? It screams "r u impressed, i was waiting 4 u??1!".

[Gnome]

Maybe she's just tired from things she did at the lake?

[Hawk]

Maybe she's just tired from things she did at the lake?

Like getting banged by the life gaurd

Thats what I thought initially too, I just didnt post that

Edited by hawk117, 14 July 2006 - 01:59 PM.

[Ilya]

You cant judge someone over the phone, once she comes back you will find out if she loves you or not.. If she does, stay with her.. if she doesnt... fuck.. there are more girls in the world then guys

[Gnome]

Like getting banged by the life gaurd

Now you know I didnt mean it like that

[Tetiel]

You know... all of you guys who are saying she cheating on him are really doing the opposite of making him feel better. Don't make him jump to conclusions that he shouldn't be jumping to

[Dan]

She hates you. No, seriously. She's found some other guy who she's now fucking. In the asshole.

[Ives]

If you're in high school, it's more about expirimenting with what you like and dislike. Don't push your luck with love (Then Again, Sakura and DeLocke are married, and they started out in a high school relationship.)