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[Zeeky]

I think my girlfriend is pregnant. What the fuck do I do. Agh. Agh. Agh. Agh. Agh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A couple days ago she complains her back hurts.
She's been super tired.
Yesterday she said she's been wanting to eat even though she isn't hungry.
Today she said she thinks her boobs got bigger.

Sounds pregnant. Yes? What the fuck. Last time we had sex was like a week and a half ago. Yes we used a condom. Yes I think I used it right, I'm not a total idiot I hope. Fuck. I'm so scared. What the hell do I do. I brought up the possibility with her like an hour ago and she says no but I say yes. I'm not going to know until tomorrow and I'm not going to be able to sleep over this bullshit. FUCK.

The end.

[Cory]

BEEN THERE DONE THAT! I know how you feel man. Sucks real bad!

Here is what's gonna happen. She isn't gonna be pregnant, then your going to be like thank god where gonna be EXTRA careful next time / not do it, then your going to do it again and be in the same shit in a month.

All you can do is relax and hope she isn't.

[Tetiel]

I think you're seriously overreacting. Partially because I think a lot of men don't realize the correct symptoms of pregnancy. Back pains don't come till much later for one. She'd pretty much have to be showing. You do realize all the symptoms you've listed have to do with being on her period... right? If you're so worried go get a test. But seriously as a girl who has had to deal with guys worrying about pregnancy before I know you guys need to get it straight. If she IS pregnant she's probably in her earlier stages. Morning sickness doesn't come until at least 5 weeks. She'd know and probably tell you if she missed her period (I'd hope). Back pains again only tend to occur because of the extra weight from carrying a baby. That's around 5+ months. Boobs will get bigger but that's farther down the line as well. Don't panic. Just relax.

[Zeeky]

How long have you been having sex? With her; like a month and a half. We've known each other for ages but haven't been going out for that long.
Have you always used protection? Always. I wouldn't want a damn kid at this point in my life. Nor at any point.
When did her symptoms first occur? Fatigue she was complaining about like... a week ago. That's a symptom; right?
(Out of curiosity only, how old are you?) 16; she's 17.

I know that I need to relax but I'm so scared right now. I don't want her to be pregnant and get an abortion and go through that whole emotional ordeal. We aren't ready for this. We'll never be ready for this. I'm like all super BAHHH right now. Sorry. I'll know in the morning; I'm getting a test, she's coming over. I insisted on it. She said her last period was 2 weeks or so ago. So it wouldn't be missed yet; right? I can't wait for that. I know I'm super over reacting but I don't know what else to do. Haha.

[Tetiel]

Fatigue is also a possible symptom of being on her period It's also a symptom of about 50 million known illnesses. Don't. Freak. Out.

[Jewbert]

Mmm I don't think you have anything to worry about. I was just worried about this myself, actually.
My period was 10 days late and I had been feeling nauseated after almost every meal. I was seriously worried but then
it showed up, and I realised I had probably just been stressed out about a lot of stuff.

She'll probably have her period soon. Then you can sigh in relief. Just relax and wait it out. I know it's hard to do. Trust me, I've been there.

[Zeeky]

Yes. Hilarious matter. I guess my reaction over nothing is probably pretty hilarious though.

http://www.americanp...cysymptoms.html

Reading that is what really got me freaked. But I don't know what the hell the differences between that and an onset period could be. Haha. Ok. Tetiel your stuff really helped to calm me down haha. I just need the test for reassurance. This is not a good way to start off finals week.

[travis]

lol...

[Jewbert]

Yes. Hilarious matter. I guess my reaction over nothing is probably pretty hilarious though.

http://www.americanp...cysymptoms.html

Reading that is what really got me freaked. But I don't know what the hell the differences between that and an onset period could be. Haha. Ok. Tetiel your stuff really helped to calm me down haha. I just need the test for reassurance. This is not a good way to start off finals week.

From my experiences, the more a girl worries about this kind of stuff, the later the period will be due to stress. Stress fucks up a lot in the body.

But for your sake, I hope she's not.

[Tetiel]

Don't worry about it. ALL guys freak out like this. I mean no one wants a kid when they're your age. Hell I don't want a kid myself at 19. Or when I'm 23. See that site should have calmed you down a bit as it gives alternate explanations on why everything your girlfriend complained about could be perfectly normal. Again personally I just think she's on her period and didn't tell you about it. I mean no girl likes to... discuss that with their boyfriends... >_>

I think an onset period is when sometimes women... kinda sort of bleed when they first get pregnant. Like the first week and such for some reason. I don't know why entirely but it's not like menstruation though. Much much lighter. More like spotting.

And Brooke I really agree with you. There was this one time where I thought I was because I was a bit late and then I ended up not having it at all that month because I was freaking out so much.

[Cory]

Marine says:
is it to early to post a falcon punch picture in zeekys post?
Marine says:
O.O
Tetiel says:
YES
Marine says:
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Marine says:

[Zeeky]

Ok. I'm assuming she isn't. I'm hoping she isn't. I'm going to pray before I go to bed tonight haha. Thank you all. Even the 'lols' are helping me realize how absolutely silly I must seem right now. Sorry for this probably waste of a post but just in this half hour I've calmed down so much haha. I'll get back to you all in the morning. My god.


Edit:
Haha; about that. I already promised the girlfriend I wouldn't falcon punch her if she was.

Edited by Zeeky, 23 March 2008 - 11:19 PM.

[travis]

Ok. I'm assuming she isn't. I'm hoping she isn't. I'm going to pray before I go to bed tonight haha. Thank you all. Even the 'lols' are helping me realize how absolutely silly I must seem right now. Sorry for this probably waste of a post but just in this half hour I've calmed down so much haha. I'll get back to you all in the morning. My god.


Edit:
Haha; about that. I already promised the girlfriend I wouldn't falcon punch her if she was.

God speed, my fellow Nevadan!

[Germ]

Boy this must be hard on you. I can't give much advice but if anything, I would listen to Tetiel as she seems to know what she is talking about.

[Frizzle]

You're obviously too ignorant and too immature to be having sex. I hope your penis falls off.

Edited by Frizzle, 24 March 2008 - 03:51 AM.

[Cyo]

(Out of curiosity only, how old are you?) 16; she's 17.

SCORE! xD

[Jakezilla]

Is there anything tetiel doesn't know..

Wait, aren't you studying to be a doctor or something?

[Tetiel]

Is there anything tetiel doesn't know..

Wait, aren't you studying to be a doctor or something?

Psychologist. I know because I'm taking human development but especially as my sister is pregnant currently The thing is all women know this or if they don't they damn well should. It's common knowledge but for some reason it escapes a lot of men.

[phalkon]

how old is she? maybe her boobs did get bigger.

in which case, that's cause for celebration.

[Dan]

how old is she? maybe her boobs did get bigger.

in which case, that's cause for celebration.

I like the way you think.

[phalkon]

I like the way you think.

LOL... thanks.

Edited by murderkill 2.5.5, 24 March 2008 - 09:02 AM.

[Silk]

LOL... thanks.

Realized the mistake?

[Grizzy]

Play with fire and you're bound to get burned.
Hopefully just one way.

[phalkon]

Realized the mistake?

eh?

>_>

where?

[Rolf Lolren]

Raise the kid.

Kids are great.