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#1 Sida

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:04 PM

Never in my life have I found a black woman attractive. It's not that I look at them and refuse to like them because of it, I just honestly have never seen a black woman that I've thought is the slightest bit attractive. Same goes for indian girls.

I went to a strip club for my friends 18th and a black woman started dancing on me and stuff, and I didn't get the slightest bit turned on. In fact, I was actually looking forward to her getting off me.

I have both black and indian friends, what gives?

#2 Hawk

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:09 PM

Nah, it just isn't your thing.

If a whale of a person started dancing on me and stuff, I'd be like "Get the fuck off me". blink.gif That is how you are with black people... Whatever.

Edited by Hawk, 23 September 2008 - 03:11 PM.


#3 Vegas

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:13 PM

Lol thats like my white friend. Ever since then everytime I see one who I think is hot, I point her out to him and he usually agrees.

Kinda off topic but I felt I had to say this but mix races are usually the hottest. Specially azn/white.

#4 rcadble

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:14 PM

QUOTE (SidaZoid @ Sep 23 2008, 03:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Never in my life have I found a black woman attractive. It's not that I look at them and refuse to like them because of it, I just honestly have never seen a black woman that I've thought is the slightest bit attractive. Same goes for indian girls.

I went to a strip club for my friends 18th and a black woman started dancing on me and stuff, and I didn't get the slightest bit turned on. In fact, I was actually looking forward to her getting off me.

I have both black and indian friends, what gives?


I don't think that makes you a racist. I'm not attracted to black women but I have black friends.

#5 Jakerz

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:26 PM

Naw I don't think it does, I'm the exact same way.

#6 sonic

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:33 PM

Yeah.
Besides maybe Halle Berry, I wouldn't bone many black girls.

Must be the whole bubble gum vag.

#7 Frizzle

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:33 PM

Usually it's only racist if the victim involved perceives it as racist, but in this case it's a simple fact of sexual attraction. Some people prefer redheads to brunettes, tall girls to short girls. Obviously if you have friends of different cultures and race; you don't seem to be racist. Of course things change, I used to be the same way, but I have a bit of a jungle fever going tongue.gif

Just a little tidbit, many pyschologists think that we're all a bit racist as you make your first assumptions within the first few seconds you see/meet someone, and of course you take race and looks into which would involuntary racist but of course, you conscisnous (sp) sorts that out for you.

#8 Tetiel

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:54 PM

Hmmmm... naw. Just makes you selective on looks. I've thought many people were attractive of many different races. Seems I'm kinda odd but at the same time looks don't matter much to me.

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 04:11 PM

I find all sorts of different girls attractive. I find it rather odd that there are race preferences, but not racist tongue.gif

#10 Rolf Lolren

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 04:18 PM

The reply i was going to make would probably count as racist, Soooooooim just gonna say, nah, its all in your head, or maybe you just havent seen the right person Tbh.

#11 philywilly

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 04:31 PM

Kind of like frizzle.. I used to have the same thoughts.. but.. nah, not anymore. Although, nothing beats a nice mix smile.gif

#12 SupermanFTM

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 06:12 PM

I think that's a pretty big problem in current society. Everyone is worried about being racist and offending other people so much that it has become questionable whether or not it is racist to not find people attractive. That's ridiculous. Firstly, to be truly racist you have to discriminate based on race on a conscious level. Also, everyone judges other people based on shallow attributes to being with, it's natural.

No, it's not racist. Don't worry about it. smile.gif

#13 Vegas

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 06:41 PM

You guys gotta expand your tastes.

Im really finding it common now being attracted to chicks from many different cultures in uni.

#14 Vegas

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 03:29 AM

QUOTE (Josh @ Sep 24 2008, 12:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I've never in my life been attracted to a black girl either. I suppose I *may* get attracted to one that actually dressed and acted properly but around where I live every single one of them dress and act the same (ghetto). It's a real turn off especially when they try to hit on you. I'm getting disgusted just thinking about it tongue.gif

Trust me there are ones with class.

#15 zigzag

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 03:35 AM

Never dug a white girl, they're so nasty, apart from a south african girl I dated.

Edited by Fred Hampton, 24 September 2008 - 03:36 AM.


#16 Vegas

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 05:04 AM

Lol u guys need to stop being so picky. Ive met girls from all races that were really decent and some that were really nasty. Race dont matter. But I guess it is all personal preference.

#17 hungryhippo

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 07:24 AM

no, it's not racist. It's just pickiness tongue.gif Altho i don't think I've ever been seriously attracted to a guy of a another race...

#18 Reaper

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 12:16 PM

I don't think its racism at all...I think its just what you find attractive.

#19 Fatal

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 01:33 PM

Not racist. Race gives you a look, and to some that look is appealing, to some, its not.

#20 Random

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 02:01 PM

QUOTE (SidaZoid @ Sep 23 2008, 06:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Never in my life have I found a black woman attractive. It's not that I look at them and refuse to like them because of it, I just honestly have never seen a black woman that I've thought is the slightest bit attractive. Same goes for indian girls.

I went to a strip club for my friends 18th and a black woman started dancing on me and stuff, and I didn't get the slightest bit turned on. In fact, I was actually looking forward to her getting off me.

I have both black and indian friends, what gives?


Same with me dude.
I don't like the dark meat.

#21 JayAre

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 05:01 PM

The concept of race is madness. If we all originated from the same descendants, where would you get that we are all of the sudden different. A physical attraction can stem from a mental one. You might see someone with darker skin, and get turned off by their persona. That is, the stereotypical "ghetto" or "uneducated" type of person, regardless if that was them or not. At the same time, you can see a lighter-skinned person, and be attracted to them, yet they have the same demeanor as the "ghetto black girl". It's largely what you just naturally accept, and I wouldn't go calling myself racist if I shyed away from someone I don't find attractive

Edited by JayAre, 24 September 2008 - 05:02 PM.


#22 Gone

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 07:03 PM

Racist = Putting Others down (blocking opportunities) because a person believes that the individual is racially inferior.
Prejudice = Pre + Judging before knowing.
Taste = Individual liking that has probably been tried before and wouldn't mind having again.

You are not attracted to certain girls you have met. You have not met all black girls in the world to decide that you are not attracted to them. Who knows you might have been attracted to a quadroon (still black). But it is not being racist, as many others before me have mentioned. To each there own (likings).

EDIT: Finally remembered the word. People have preferences.

Edited by Meirsa, 24 September 2008 - 08:47 PM.


#23 Nick

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 07:11 PM

I'm not attracted to Black, Hispanic, Asian, Indian, or Middle Eastern guys.

#24 sonic

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 07:32 PM

QUOTE (Urban @ Sep 24 2008, 07:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm not attracted to Black, Hispanic, Asian, Indian, or Middle Eastern guys.


What a homo tongue.gif

#25 Jewbert

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Posted 24 September 2008 - 08:12 PM

I've been told that I'm racist because I'd never date//am not attracted to black guys. I have close black//mixed guy friends but I can't see myself dating them. Don't know why. Like said above, guess it's just not my thing. . .


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