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[sonic]

Well.
The girlfriend is now 3 days late on her period.
And she is pretty regular on her periods.
She did have a UTI not to long ago, not sure if that screws with it.

We thought she was pregnant before but she was wrong about when her period was supposed to be or something.

I bought a EPT thing for her to use, but somehow she screwed it up by not pointing it downward or something cause the little box that shows a bar if the test worked never came up. So tomarrow, its off to spend 9bucks on another test.

But yeah.
Im kind of nervous.

[pyke]

Try to not dwell on it right now.

Go to bed.

[redlion]

For serious. Won't make you feel better talking to buggers like us

Have a good rest.

[sonic]

3 days is minor, not a lot to stress over.

Tbh, for peace of mind I always keep a spare pregnancy test in my drawer.

As for UTI, well if she took antibiotics that will interfere with the pill (if she's on that) so that could have caused a problem. Or it could simply put her dates out of whack a little bit because of the stress on the body by being sick.

No pill.
And she did take anti-biotics.

We just got done talking about it and she said she woulnt even think about an abortion, which tbh i dont think I would want.

But seriously. Im going to have to force myself to sleep. Im dying right now thinking about it.
Like what the fuck kind of dad would I be?
I am going to have to stop drinking, and smoking weed.
Stop partying, and all that. Plus, I might have to marry this girl?

Go to bed.

I am.
Considering your ass is not on msn for me to hound about this

[Fatal]

Hope it works out in your favor mang. I'm interested to hear the end of the story.

Edited by Fatal, 30 November 2008 - 11:33 PM.

[sonic]

Hope it works out in your favor mang. I'm interested to hear the end of the story.

Im hoping the end is.
in 9 months the baby comes out black.

[Fatal]

Im hoping the end is.
in 9 months the baby comes out black.

That is scary, unrealistic, and also, stupid.

Edited by Fatal, 30 November 2008 - 11:40 PM.

[Sweeney]

my brother smokes weed
drinks
and hes a good dad

only parties once in awhile

obviously gotta cut back but you dont gotta stop
just lecture your kids not to be like you

Yay for hypocrisy

[Dan]

HAHAHAHAH worst father ever

[Sida]

My ex was over a month late so you can imagine how I felt. Still turns out she wasn't pregnant though. Don't stress just yet man. Tbh I agree with abortion in cases like these, purely for the sake of the child.

[The Dirty Filipino]

I've had a lot of scares like that, don't stress it.

[hungryhippo]

Yea three days is really not very long. Unless she works like a german clock or something. Just breathe, and let life take its course. Worry about the what ifs when you have more information

[zigzag]

Ew...

[Waser Lave]

There's always abortion if neither of you are ready to have a child...

[hungryhippo]

There's always abortion if neither of you are ready to have a child...

Or adoption

[Grizzly]

best of luck dude, hope it works out

[Icey Defeat]

I agree. 3 days isnt bad. Try having a gf skip her period and not be pregnant That was the worst 2 months of my life.

[Oaken]

My fiancee has been weeks late before and it has just turned out to be a missed period. That caused a panic let me tell you.

I doubt you have anything to worry about.

[Cyo]

FALCON PUNCH
HAWK KICK
TURKEY PECK

[Frank274]

I may be the only one who doesn't know this...

but how old are you?

[Valkyrja]

FALCON PUNCH
HAWK KICK
TURKEY PECK

QFT




Also
Dude.. why won't she think about an abortion. What is she, 21 at the most? I just get kind of ruffled when people throw that idea out the window. it's a fair and safe choice that can make a lot of peoples' lives better. hers. yours. the child that won't have to live the life of a kid with inexperienced, young parents who had to throw away their youth for the sake of a child. I grew up that kid and i just hate seeing people think they can just.. you know, change, and have a kid. I hate my mom tbh, she's the worst person i've ever met, because after she got sick of how I was a cute little kid she decided she wanted her youth back and just started partying and left my grandparents to raise me for the most part. I'm thankful i'm not a drug dealer or something nowadays.
I don't really know you that well but a lot can happen to people with huge changes like this. i hope the best for you, man. try and reason with your girl, i mean chicks get squeamish over "ew omg dead babies and fetuses, that's just not right" but think about your future ): she should too.

[Icey Defeat]

I may be the only one who doesn't know this...

but how old are you?

I'm not him but I 'believe' he is 21 or 22.

[redlion]

I agree. 3 days isnt bad. Try having a gf skip her period and not be pregnant That was the worst 2 months of my life.

Mine skipped hers all the time. Something about her diet. Literally 7 months since she's had it. Not worrying though

[Random]

Well that sucks man.
Hopefully its just false. If not, you seem to me to be someone who would be able to do what they needed to do