Are you sure the program manager isn't still open. Check the icons in your system tray (near the clock).
The only reason you wouldn't be able to stay logged into Neo is because the program manager (and possibly a program) is running in the background.
I guess I thought it wasn't running because there wasn't an icon for it anymore at the bottom of the screen but when i went to my task manager and went to the processes tabo_o there were like 9 of them running or something thank you. does this mean you can't use both at the same time, since abrosia logs into your account?